Problem Solved

Ok, so I talked to my mom last night about moving in with us, and she said she would after all her chemo treatments are done and she has healed up from her surgery. My grandma is the one that takes her to all her appts and grandma won’t drive all the way out to my house so for the time being mom is where she needs to be. I went through all this with Andy Monday night and then yesterday I emailed him telling him that it upset me to have to move, and I’m sure he was like wtf she was alright with it the other day and now she has a problem with it. You have to understand from my point of view, yes you want to move, and with your lifestyle there is no problem with just up and going any old place you choose, but for me that doesn’t work. I have a family to think about and while me and Sean can adapt, I can’t just uproot Mikayla everytime someone is having a crisis. That’s not fair to her and I hadn’t thought that through when I offered to move. After I thought about it I realized that that is the most unfair option for her. Manda said that Mik is young enough that it wouldn’t hurt her to leave her friends but I can’t agree with that. She loves these kids she’s met, she talks about them when we’re at home or out doing something and she recognizes them if we run into one of them at a sotre or park or something so that tells me that she would miss them. I’m not doubting that she could make new friends but children are so impressionable and she already loves these kids, and her teachers, can’t tell you how much I’ve heard about “Ms. Rita” since she started there. So I just can’t leave my home right now. But, I know that Andy needs to leave, he’s not happy with us anymore and that’s fine, it was bound to happen. Like Deena said last night, she seen this coming before we ever moved out of the apartments. But mom saved the day yet again, she’s so good at doing that, and it’ll be exciting to live with my mom for awhile. I can make sure she gets good meals, this was becoming an issue as of late because L.C. refuses to learn to cook and one can only eat so many sandwiches before you’re body goes on strike. I’ll love being able to see her every day and talk to her all the time, so this is going to be a positive change I think.

And on a side note, I love comments, and I really love it when someone completely new stops by and leaves a few words, but please don’t be rude about it. If you don’t agree with something I’ve wrote or if something in my post pisses you off, find a decent way of expressing it, don’t call people names or make fun of them.

Spanx.