people irritate me

So my daughter absolutly loves ICP and she knows almost all the words to all their songs..... now if you know any ICP then you know how not good of an idea this could turn into... lol I've had to explain to her what some of the songs mean because I don't want her singing along with something she doesn't undersand. It's always been important to me that my kiddo understand things before she does or talks about them. Like one day she asked me what Nigger meant cuz she hears my friend Nick say it like every other word and I explained it to her... but then i told her it was a word she shouldn't use. I told her when Nick said it, he meant it more like brother or dude but that it can be a very hurtful word and hurt some peoples feelings... I told her that it was a word that started a long long time ago that people used to describe black people, back in the slave days and that it was very offensive if used incorrectly but that it wasn't necessarily a cuss word like fuck or shit was. I told her it was an adult word sorta but that it was one of them words that you shouldn't ever use unless you completly understand what you're meaning when you say it.... and she understood... and has never said it.. and I think she knew it was kinda a bad word anyway cause when she asked me about it she said "what's that n word nick uses all the time mean mom?"

I think I have a very very smart kid..... who got STRAIGHT A'S this year btw..... yay!!! But she's always been really early in every stage of development (minus potty training, she was 4 before we got that down fully) but other than that... she gave up her own pacifier at like 4 months old.. just didn't want it anymore.... she stopped taking a bottle at a year old... she could talk in full sentences by a year old and I know people with 2 year olds that can barely talk, mik has always been understandable and very very talkative... and she walked at 9 and a half months..... well le me rephrase that.... she RAN at 9 and a half months.... lol we had her sitting on seans moms kitchen table one night and she stood up and ran down it to her nana... lol and since she realized those little legs were good for something, she's never again been in a stroller... hell I sold her stroller before her first birthday.... she wouldn't stay in it if you put her in it and she knew how to work the straps so she'd just unbuckle herself and get out.. she wanted to walk... she's never been a carry me kid neither.... but I've been grateful her whole life how smart she is.... I'd put her in the top 10 of any child I've ever known and thats not just cause I'm biased.... schools even said she's extremly bright.... just kinda hyper and it's hard to settle her down enough to sit thru class all the time...

I've always thought she had a touch of add but all kids do and i've never concerned myself with it.... she learns just fine and obviously with straight a's she does just fine in school too.. so I've always just chalked it up to her being an only child and not having the opportunity to run off her energy,.... lol


And a side note real quick.... she can read now really well and is sitting over my shoulder reading as I write this... lol it's so weird when your child can read... you gotta stop spelling things around them for sure.. haha start talking in code instead.

But mik has always had a very strong opinion on the music she likes... she's modeled it around sean and my tastes naturally because thats what she hears most often because I've never been one of them moms who puts "the wheels on the bus" cd in when my kids in the car.... lol thats just kinda retarded to me.... I just taught my kid from the time she could talk which words that only adults are allowed to say... she's asked me why they are adult words only and I've told her that as you get older you gain more privileges in life and being able to say whatever is one of them.. she bought it. lol

I've posted a few times with ICP lyrics tho.... I keep using them as an example because they are pretty vulgar... like on their new cd theres a song called "to catch a predator" the song is about how J (the singer) tricks perverts online into thinking he's a 12 year old girl and invites them to his (her) house and then beats the shit out of them and leaves em chained in his basement so he can go beat on em periodically.... because they deserve it.... (and they do) lol but it's just a song... it's not like he's singing about something he actually did... and I've always thought it was so stupid how people make such a big deal over songs.. like for instance Ice T's Cop Killa...... omg that song raised such a stir when it came out that they banned it from being played in the US.... same as 2 live crews "As Nasty as they wanna be" but all it does is prompt them to come out with something to retaliate with... hence 2 live crews very next album "banned in the usa"..... who fucking cares what a song says? it's like people blaming tv for their children shooting up their schools.... thats not the tvs fault it's the parents fucking fault for not knowing their child well enough to realize there was some sort of disturbance in their brain......

Anyway my point is...... I had someone tell me I was a bad mom cause I let mik listen to icp. fuck you. lol i'ma great mommy.... ask my kid. I just realize that I have a foul fucking mouth but she doesn't.... she knows what she can say and what she can't say and if she can't figure out how to substitute a clean word for a bad word when she's singing then she'll ask me what word she can use instead.....

like

" I get mad, i'ma fuck you up it's me and you mother fucker I'ma fuck you up" is part of one of the songs..... she says "I'ma mess u up.. it's me and you bad person I'ma mess you up" and I personally see nothing wrong with that.. she hears those words daily from me from her dad and from most the people we know what's the fucking difference in hearing them in songs?

I hate when people try to butt into your parenting lifestyle.... have your ownkids if you wanna try to play parent asshole. lol