Is 3 a crowd?

Well first thing. Mom went to see her surgeon yesterday and they told her she wasn't a candidate for surgery. He then told her she might qualify for a new treatment called Chemoemobilization. It's where they go in through the artery in your leg, kinda like they do a cardiac cath, and they put the catherter directly into your liver and shoot high concentrates of Chemo straight into the tumor. It's supposed to kill the tissue surrounding the tumor and keep it from growing or spreading. It can't get rid of it however so she's always going to have cancer. =( And it has to be repeated every 10-14 months. But, if it works correctly it can extend your life by up to 10 years. So, not the best news we could have gotten but not the worst either. At least we still have options.

Ok, next subject. Everyone remember Mandas post about anal sex? hehe well, this is along those same lines. The other night me and Sean were talking about 3-somes. His little brother was voer here bragging and I guess it got Sean to thinking lol. I mean, we were really seriously talking about it. Of course it's always been a fantasy of his, what guy doesn't have that fantasy right? But I've always thought it sounded like fun too. Now, I don't know that we'll ever actually do it, but we had a good talk about it. I think my main concern would be that I'm a jealous person and I'd be afraid that down the line I would be like so was she better than me? Are you thinking about her or shit like that, just cause I know me too well. But he said that even if it were just me and another girl and he got to watch he'd be happy. DUH! lol. But still, I told him that wouldn't be fair to him and he said it would be more than fair actually. But then we discussed having sex with another couple, at least that way both of us would be with someone different and there wouldn't be any jealousy involved because we both did it. We had the talk about how it's not cheating if we're both in agreement about it and that it doesn't mean that it's ok to have sex with anyone else because it IS cheating if one party isn't present or isn't aware of it happening you know. We even went as far as to say that we wouldn't want it to be anyone we knew, I mean I know a few people who would love to join us, they've actually asked us before if they could but I don't think I'd be comfortable around them afterwards. But then again, I say that and I thought the same of Andy when I had him take pics of me halk nekkid for Seans valentine present one year, but I've never felt uncomfy around Andy since then so maybe it wouldn't bother me, I dunno. So anyway, like I said I doubt we'll ever actually do it but at least we both know that we can talk about it and that we understand each other on all points. So my question is, has anyone out there actually brought other people into bed with them and their partner? And if so, was their any fights about it later on, and are you still with that person? I've just heard too many stories about it breaking people up and it's not worth it to me if that's gonna happen, because me and Sean already have awesome head-board breaking sex but we're always up for a challenge. hehe CHALLENGE! so I'd like to hear some "success" stories lol.